Maybe you are writing a book of romance. How are you bringing your character into love? Love is more than just good looks and chemistry and compatibility. It’s about the inner work and the mindset changes that attracts love.
How can you portray that in your character. To make the relationship and the character grow more realisticly maybe just incorporate some transformation.
I was in a clubhouse room about finding your soul mate and I found some key take aways. The inner work has to start before the love begins. The person needs to be ready heart and soul approach.
Part of the inner work for a person is the
Inner core values
Having a passion for something other than love
Ability to communicate intimately
Starting with self and being internally and externally healthy meaning emotionally, socially and physically.